The fun thing is that you never know whether you’re on the
right track or not. It is living life in small moments and the bigger picture
at the same time.
You’re on a Trek : Imagine you’re on a
trek. Keep looking at the peak every now and then. Are you nearer to it then
you were before? If yes, keep focusing on the path, or make one that seems
right. If the peak seems farther that it was before, realize which the wrong
turn was and undo it. Ensure your teams stays together, ensure all of them want
the peak. Ensure each one of you wants to share the load while making your way
to the top by sharing food and water among yourselves equally. The peak is the
BIG PICTURE and your immediate path stands for the everyday challenges.
Roadblock? Find a way. Thirsty? Find a stream. Leopard in your way? Knock it
out (killing is cruel). One team member behaving like a douche? Show him the
way down. Douche villager who is rude while showing the way? Still be polite and
burn no bridges.
Losing steam? Look at the peak
again! Breathe the fringing’ mountain air! Look at your strong legs, look at
the clouds, look at the innocent birds chirping happily all around you- the
world loves you. You love yourself. And you’re so strong that you’ve made it so
far. You chose the mountain. You chose your team. You chose the path- built it,
I’d say. You’ve settled in your niche, you know your purpose; you know where
you’re headed. LOOK AT THE PEAK! And it will all make sense.
Uncertainty is
Natural: Because no one is driving your life but you. You never know that
you’re on the right track till the short term goals get fulfilled. Set
milestones, they help you know that you’re on the right track. Product reached
a certain stage? Good. People/Mentors appreciate the progress? Good. Team still
motivated enough? Good. You figure out how you’ll make money? Good.
Believe: Understand the reason
why you feel you’re back at Square One. Is it the progress at the project? Is
it lack of team cohesion? Is it lack of financial security? If yes, then get
things in order. List them, sort them out. Make sure the startup grows slowly
but steadily. Is it purely emotional? Speak about it to your family, your
better half. Feel loved.
The First Year Is
Often Slow It always is, because you’re out in the cold, trying to build
something and making tonnes of mistakes. But you learn so much then, that helps
you accelerate in the next year and after that. So don’t worry that you’re
taking time, you’re learning in the process. But DO NOT get complacent and DO
NOT take things as they come. You might need to initiate and lead and create
and execute.
Where Is This Coming
From? From numerous conversations I’ve had with fellow business people,
my own experience (2 years out in the cold till date), a number of blogs online
and wonderful books I’ve read. You’re not alone, but you got do what you have
to do to make a difference in life.